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Sikkim Matrimony

Matrimony in Sikkim differs with every ethnic group residing in Sikkim. Sikkim houses a wide range of ethnic groups within the territory; the matrimonial ritual of each of the races in Sikkim shows a distinct cultural pattern.

Talking about Sikkim matrimony, it can be said that matrimony of Sikkim restricts the Sikkimese to marry outside their community. Most of the races in Sikkim maintains restrictions about matrimony: it is noteworthy that marriage outside the community is a social taboo and calls for various social hassles.

About Sikkim Matrimony

An estimate of the matrimony at Sikkim according to the different ethnic groups in Sikkim is as follows:
  • Bhutias - Bhutias possesses a patriarchal society, where the laws of the land largely support the menfolks. Talking about matrimony in Sikkim among the Bhutia clan, it can be said that the inter-marriage between the Bhutias and Lepchas is permissible in Sikkim. Moreover, the matrimonial relation between the Lepcha chiefs and the Tibetan nobles has led to the rise of a new class namely the Kazis.

  • Lepchas - Marriage among the Lepchas are generally initiated by the head of the family. Lepchas are socially liberal people; therefore, they do not have any reservations regarding matrimony in Sikkim.

  • Limbu - The Limbus belong to the Kirati tribe. There is no restrictions among the Limbus regarding marriage; Limbus are known to have matrimonial relations with the other sects of Kirati tribe, as well as with the Rais and Khambas.

  • Gurkhas - Gurkhas have strict rules about marriages in Sikkim. The Gurkhas are socially superior; therefore, they are not allowed to marry outside their community. Marrying outside the Gurkha community is considered a taboo among the Gurkhas.

  • Chettris - Chettris, like the Gurkhas, also belong to the higher strata of the society. Although, inter-marriage is allowed among the Chettris; yet, marriage outside their social class is prohibited.
Beside these ethnic groups, we also come across other races that show a distinct matrimonial pattern. Among those races of Sikkim are:
  • Newar
  • Tamang
  • Nepali
  • Thakurs
  • Rai
  • Magar, etc.